You Are Not Just Another Case Number at Dads.Law

Let’s be honest: Oklahoma family courts can feel hostile to men. You are worried about losing access to your children. You are worried about unfair alimony that cripples your future. You are worried that one wrong move could cost you everything you’ve built.

You are right to be worried. But you don’t have to be a victim.

At Dads.Law, we don’t play defense. We know the tactics used against fathers, and we know how to counter them. We stop the bleeding and start fighting for your future.

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“Dads.Law treated me like a father going through a difficult divorce, and not just another case file.

I was glad I chose Jeff Bacon to represent me and handle the details of my divorce. Jeff Bacon did an excellent job of representing me and was able to navigate and recommend solutions to some minor wrinkles encountered during the process. I have confidence in his abilities and would gladly hire him again should the need arise.

Shawn Corcoran

Why Oklahoma Men Choose Dads.Law

We are not generalists. We specialize in the unique challenges fathers face in the courtroom.

  • Aggressive Asset Protection: We fight to ensure your hard-earned assets aren’t unfairly stripped away.

  • Custody Strategy: We believe a father’s role is essential. We fight for 50/50 custody or better, not just “visitation.”

  • False Allegation Defense: We know how to handle leverage tactics and false accusations often used in high-conflict divorces.

The Cost of Waiting is Too High

Every day you wait to get legal counsel is a day the other side is building their case against you. Don’t let your spouse dictate the terms of your new life. Take control today.

Local Representation Matters

Don’t hire an out-of-town firm that doesn’t know the Tulsa judges. We are in the trenches of the Tulsa County Courthouse every day. We know the opposing counsel, we know the judges, and we know how to navigate the local legal landscape to your advantage.

2226 S 92nd E Ave, Tulsa, OK 74129

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Jeff Bacon

Lead Fathers’ Rights Attorney

Jeff Bacon is a Tulsa-based family law attorney whose practice is focused on protecting fathers’ rights and representing clients in complex divorce and custody disputes. His work includes prenuptial agreements, high-value divorce cases, valuation of marital businesses, child custody and support matters, and cases involving allegations of domestic violence that often result in protective orders and emergency custody cases.
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FAQs for Men Facing Divorce

Straight answers to the questions almost every dad asks about divorce, custody, support, and family court.

Do courts really favor mothers?

Short answer: Legally? No. The statutes say parents are equal. In reality? Biases still exist. Assumptions are made about who the “primary caregiver” is. Our job is to break those assumptions with evidence and aggressive advocacy to ensure the court sees you as an equal parent.

What should I do first if I think divorce Is coming?

1. Do not move out of the house without speaking to us first; it can be seen as abandoning the family.

2. Secure your financials. Document everything.

3. Call us immediately. The strategic decisions you make in the first week often determine the outcome of the entire case.

How do I talk to my kids during divorce?

Be honest but age-appropriate. Never disparage their mother to them—courts hate that, and it hurts your case. Make it clear that both parents love them. Let us handle the fight in the courtroom so you can be a dad at home.